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Sometimes I think I think too much...

Monday, March 23, 2009

Back in high school we had a literature teacher who, after every short story we read, made us do a little report on the story, including coming up with a theme for the story. Since we had not too much interest in this, we had a few lines down pat which applied to most stories, and would just use those.
The most popular one was "Man's Inhumanity to Man". It usually worked for most stories.

IN the past three weeks, I have heard so many horrible, tragic stories from the people around me, and it occured to me that this is yet another example of Man's Inhumanity to Man. It is really getting me down because so many of these problems were caused by people treating their fellow people in ways they would not want to be treated themselves.

-- A young teen passed away who had been battling drug addiction. Sadly, his drug problem was a result of him having been molested.
--A couple I know has gotten divorced, I dont know the exact cause, but the kids are going to suffer...
--A young divorced mother is having a very tough time financially because her ex husband hasnt given her a penny in child support. His family refuses to help her despite the fact that they have plenty of money. Everyone (Rabbanim) she turns to for help tells her they cant get involved or have no power to help.
--A newly wed couple got divorced within sheva brachos.
--The kalla's father had a heart attack and is in the hospital.

All these people suffering and their problems caused by other people being inconsiderate and heartless.

3 Comments:

At 1:52 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

It is (surprisingly)unfair of you to state that all these people are suffering (1)because of others(2)an injustice has been done.You don't know all the details of the most of the stories you refer to that you can be sure an injustice was done.Plus do you feel children have a legitimate complaint on their parents if they got divorced?True it is very painful and sad, but I don't think the parents necessarily did a injustice.

 
At 3:19 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I know enough about these stories to state what I stated. in the older divorce case, if one of the spouses would made an effort to be more of a mentch, they would still be together. in the newlywed divorce case, clearly 1-someone wasnt able/ready for marriage and was pushed into it 2- someone was hiding something.

 
At 12:52 PM, Blogger David_on_the_Lake said...

If you read biogoraphies of the greatest people that have ever lived..from thinkers and artists etc...very very few of them lived pampered life..
Not that I'm condoning bad situations but...it can lead to tremendous growth as well...
One of the reasons why it leads so many astray in our community...well I recently did a post about that called Hiding Behind "us"

 

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